@Zflpower ok, im assuming you don't know how to astro- project.
i can't teach that with one post, so we'll simplify it.
But, you have a burning desire, that's intent and that's most of magic.
Lie down on your bed, close your eyes. Imagine your crush. Now, imagine the two of you kissing, making love.
If you can imagine specific positions, then that would be optimal.
Do it every day at a specific time. This is crucial: for magic to work you must have consistency.
Now, to the baneful part: same thing with the

, but focus on the negative emotions of your potential partner being with other women, not seeing you as a woman in a sexual way. Feel the anger, frustration etc.
Each of these workings should take you no more rhan ten minutes per day, I'd start with five minutes each.
Do them for at least a week.
Keep me updated on how it goes.
Best of luck to you,
John.