I have been using this necklace as pendulum on rituals and not taking it off me for a year. I recently changed the chain but charm is still the same. I want to give it to my crush who leaves far away (my friend goes to his city she will give it to his friend and his friend will give it to him) and I wonder if I can do anything with it. I want him to think about me nonstop. If u know sth pls help I don’t have lot of time.