[Help] I am cursed?

[concetricCylinder]

Hey,

I'm new here , and well, it's gonna be a long post..

So for starters, I haven't had much experience with occult, just a simple Nordic pagan, for much longer than I can remember. But now, my old rituals doesn't help, hell, I think they are making it much worse.

So long story short, well ish, I used to date this married woman, I know not proud of it, and finally had enough of being the second option, I said it's over. She came over to gave me back keys to my apartment and said something like she doesn't wish anything bad for me but hopes I'll suffer.
And that was it, for few months everything was perfect

Until, I've started dating someone else, the married one found out, and scared absolutely sh out of me, as she knew things she should most definitely not, we work together, and she just approached me and started asking bunch of questions.
Since then my life went to an absolute shitehole, starting with hellish nightmares where I woke up all wet, feeling presence and to scared to actually movejust lying there white feeling like being watch.
Also, I was actually of good health, now since there, over two months, I've Been fit for work for like week and a half, and we talking like lose of hearing in one ear or broken bones, and it's not just me, the one I'm dating, her live seems to crumble as well.

I should mention as well, the married one, she quite frequently visited some person like, well don't know how to name her in English, like farseer? Wise woman? I hope you'll know what I mean.

And here is my question, Am I cursed? Is there anything I can do?

Seriously I need help, tying to stand tall and fight but I'm sinking deeper..

 

[stalkinghyena]

Is there anything I can do?

One part of psychic self-defense is defeating the story you are telling yourself in yourself. Stop giving that person credit, cut all ties.

tying to stand tall and fight

If you really need to, find or make an image of the sender and afflict it in retaliation. Stomp on it, scream at it, burn it, whatever. At the very least you might feel better. But it's always fun if they get herpes or their hair falls out.

 

[Omee]

And here is my question, Am I cursed? Is there anything I can do?

Seriously I need help, tying to stand tall and fight but I'm sinking deeper..

Just do a curse reversal/reversal magic. If nothing happen then it's not a curse and it might be something else that's "not-a-curse". Not invalidating you, just saying that if the following spells don't work there might be more root causes that might not be related to the person who you think caused the curse and maybe something closer that need more in-depth consultation/in-depth look from someone more skilled to pin-point the problem:

[Tutorial] - Curse Reversal spells from True Magic by Draja Mickaharic

Following is copied from second chapter of True Magic by Draja, the initial 2-3 pages of the chapter goes into why a person might not be cursed. Other than that, I found these spells to be useful and doable for most people I think. Definitely give it a try if you feel curse. Reversing a Spell...

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If you're currently not financially able to afford a spiritual consultation or find one or know a good spiritual practitioner in your area to help you with this situation, then you can just bang out headless rite daily twice until something rattles out I say the last point in half-jest. Definitely try to get grounded and a simple spell reversal shouldn't be too hard for you to start figuring out what's happening.

 

[Mannimarco]

And here is my question, Am I cursed? Is there anything I can do?

I did a little divination for you. I got that you are cursed, by this wise women, using runes. She seems quite powerful. I'd agree you need a reading by a pro, and some spell work and healing.

If you want or need to handle it on your own, a daily practice of grounding, centering, banishing, and shielding is a start. Followed by the Violet Flame and Solar Light meditations, twice a day. All of which can be found for free on youtube. I'd suggest focusing on cleansing over reversing or retaliating.

Good luck

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If you are going to try to fix things on your own, I'd be willing to help a bit at first, to get you started.