its when you fall to the ground and start crying for God in pain and ask for Help. i wouldnt call it a name, more a sound coming from the depths of ones being. for me it transformation into tears. for my muminlaw it became islamic prayers, so maybe its what we divinely can do for another???
all i know is that it makes your inner being tremble and that dua or dhikr works best with it. and those are personal prayers and purifications for God. at holy shrines people pay to have a holy man make dua for them.
for me its always lah allah illalah, but thats because i like to promote more prophets and help people from different paradigms. so i think it is also important to find the word you seek within your paradigm.
this is a vid with dhikr and a man in his place. it gives me goose bumps when he sings, because he spreads in my paradigm the infalliable name tru his human power of song.
to me its a living Word and sometimes it feels like falling in love, just the word by itself. but im starting to sound like a jehovas witness now so its also restraint thought and i can go on and on, but you get the drift, we all have a different "word"....