[Opinion] If you get angry at someone, will you curse them?

[Veracity]

If you get angry at someone, will you curse them?
In the context of human life and human interactions, everyone is affected in one way or another; so perhaps you’ll wake up one day to find a fool driven by arrogance, a sense of righteousness, hatred, or a conflict of interest with you.
So, would you use your magic to curse that fool, and if so, what kind of curse would you use, and how would you do it?
I’m not asking you to reveal your secrets, just what your thoughts are—or would you forgive them and not do it at all?

I think, if it is called for, yes. Love and light only gets you so far; but just because I’m angry doesn’t mean it’s enough of a reason. They gotta be pretty heinous for me to want to direct my attention that way

 

[Kepler]

Will your inner peace protect you from harm?

Definitely. For anyone. When there's inner peace in one's own cognition it prevents them from putting themselves in harm's way unnecessarily by reflexively responding to a provocation.
It's also frustrating to those who operate by provoking someone with a strategy that has worked on others when they encounter a measured response. Since they seldom adapt they double down and start to spiral into greater cognitive dissonance with more unreasoned versions of the same strategy. Undermining veneers of rationalization and revealing their own psychology.
Then, when a person with inner peace is under attack from them then they can engage them with an asymmetric strategy moved by considered will toward positive sum rather than straight line force and zero sum.

Thank you, my friend.
What is the scope of this influence, and do you have the ability to break its cycle?

The scope can be long term and as vast as someone's horizons taking into consideration many factors, including one's own initiatory aim beyond the Exempt Adept.

You can do so with a blessing and by sending a request to their spirits to withdraw from the person affected. Have you tried it?

It is assisted by spirits, but the metaphysical explanation of it in my immanent hylozoic model will not shoehorn into a panentheistic model. The easiest way would be to skip those mechanics and think of it as telepathic psionics to make sense in the latter.

Have they actually left?

Yes, immediately when there is need for immediate resolution. The stress they undergo gets very intense. Self-awareness is difficult to suppress or process.
Otherwise, it's been more beneficial to take awhile and let it soak through what could be called the collective mind to address the issue in many others that share the same mind. These encounters may happen individually, but they don't take place in a vacuum.

Your words make sense; there must be a positive and fair outcome for the recipient. Thank you; I look forward to further explanation.

Please forgive me for jumping in on the replies—I’m working on solving the problem.

No worries. Be aware that responses added to a post later may get missed since they don't seem to trigger alerts. But, putting a reaction such as a like on the post you responded to does trigger an alert which may get a look at the thread to see if there was a response.

 

[juanitos]

Fighting back does not mean casting a curse.

I would cast a curse too if the agressor is too harsh...

 

[fungus77]

It really depends on the situation. There's a lot of people that piss me off every day, but those people are family members. My proximity to those people would mean I would get splash-back if I'm not careful. Not that the curse itself would also affect me, but that the effect of the curse on said people/family members would also affect me. Like I could curse a family member to have bad luck or something, and then it leads to them being in a shitty mood and possibly taking it out on me. Or something more extreme, they get hurt or injured, and the family members who didn't make me mad have to deal with the consequences of the injury by taking care of the offending person.

Outside of family members though, no one else really pisses me off to the point of me wanting to curse them anyway. If someone does, it's usually a complete stranger (shitty drivers), or someone who in general has little to no connections to me, so I wouldn't even see the results of the curse on them. What's the point of going through the time and energy of placing a curse if I'm not even gonna watch them suffer?

 

[Angelkesfarl]

I think, if it is called for, yes. Love and light only gets you so far; but just because I’m angry doesn’t mean it’s enough of a reason. They gotta be pretty heinous for me to want to direct my attention that way

So we need a genuine, fair standard to distinguish between blind rage—which leads you to act arbitrarily, cursing and taking action—and dealing with anger fairly and impartially. The essence of my post is this point.

I would cast a curse too if the agressor is too harsh...

There are people who really deserve it...

make me mad have to deal with the consequences of the injury by taking care of the offending person.

Unconditional tolerance toward family members is something that appeals to a healthy human psyche, and indeed, the consequences of curses can have side effects on the course of your life—especially with your family... And what about criminals—what if they target you?

 

[levi777]

If you get angry at someone, will you curse them?
In the context of human life and human interactions, everyone is affected in one way or another; so perhaps you’ll wake up one day to find a fool driven by arrogance, a sense of righteousness, hatred, or a conflict of interest with you.
So, would you use your magic to curse that fool, and if so, what kind of curse would you use, and how would you do it?
I’m not asking you to reveal your secrets, just what your thoughts are—or would you forgive them and not do it at all?

I first time say it to someone my friend and teacher Angelkesfari. Only once in my life have i cursed someone: Ι helped with all my knowledge and personal work my childhood friend to become city Mayor in the local elections. He hired me as an economic consultant, but malicious people were placed in key positions of the Town Hall with the decision of my friend Mayor. Before the elections they had been enemies for us and always were. and from opponent ideological parties (we were right wing they were leftists) and he trusted them. I got completely mad for his destructive decisions and I knew for sure that he was going to defeat in the next elections and i was right. He underestimated my skills i wanted his good to win as a trustful friend. One year before the elections i resigned and left my job due to my disappointment. The worst was to see our previous enemies in key well paid positions and me unemployed on the road. The devil has conquered my thoughts and feelings!
And one day i went to the cemetery and i took from a grave a fist of soil, then i went outside the door of the Town Hall and i dropped it outside the door. I looked up at on cloudy sky and i begged all cosmic forces good and evil to punish him and to enforce justice for his actions and the betrayal to our friendship. That was all!
I am not proud today that my good friend is now dead, not only because i have lost a friend from my childhood but because a part of the negative energy of the curse returned back to me and now i have a health problem for the rest of my life. But...that was a big lesson for me.
I asked for forgiveness to my confessor who is an orthodox christian bishop.
-Jesus Christ will forgive me for this terrible thing i have done to my friend father?
-Yes my child, Jesus Christ ALWAYS forgives his children, he said...!
This is a real story my friends, believe it or not.
So i dont thing i will ever do again a curse or black magic to anyone!
All have a price nothing is free!

 

[Angelkesfarl]

This is a real story my friends, believe it or not.

I’m truly sorry to hear about the health issue you’ve been facing, but I think you acted completely fairly toward your friend—betrayal is not something that can be easily forgiven, especially from a lifelong friend.
Perhaps you’re being too hard on yourself. Maybe the problem arose when you helped him succeed here, and the punishment came because you allowed an incompetent and dishonest person to take that position—not because of him…
Heaven has a different perspective, and therefore curses aren’t cast in vain like that…
But I’m confident he deserved it…

 

[otiosus]

It's a complicated question. Most of the time I'll want to but end up forgiving.
If you're really troubled by this question, here's my method.
Go do whatever else there is for you to do that doesn't involve that person. For example, exersice, work, hobby or even just phone time.
Wait for about 24 hours.
Recall the whole Incident again.
Think about the reason you're angered.
Is it your fault? Is it an accident? Are you still that angry?
You will soon find out most of the time you're not that angry.

 

[xenopus]

It depends on what your definition of "will you curse them " is ?

If it's proactive/direct cursing, then no.

However, in some instances, I believe if the anger is sufficient enough especially with immense pent up emotions, rage and energy (but you choose to refrain from cursing them directly) then you may still inadvertently and unknowingly curse them subconsciously.

 

[Wjk3333]

If you get angry at someone, will you curse them?
In the context of human life and human interactions, everyone is affected in one way or another; so perhaps you’ll wake up one day to find a fool driven by arrogance, a sense of righteousness, hatred, or a conflict of interest with you.
So, would you use your magic to curse that fool, and if so, what kind of curse would you use, and how would you do it?
I’m not asking you to reveal your secrets, just what your thoughts are—or would you forgive them and not do it at all?

Every time I’ve accidentally cursed somebody I’ve paid the price for it

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Do curse and hex your enemies, if you have not done it before, I can tell you it’s super satisfying when you see your curse work. It’s a phase you have to try as a LHP/dark magic user

I don’t do it anymore. I learned that it’s just the same as doing the evil deed yourself, you can’t escape the backslash. It can be less, if you’re are justified, but even then, I think it’s more beneficial to just forgive.
It’s the hurt pride that makes it harder.
I did curses for such petty reasons that at the end it made me just more bitter. If you can, just punch them in the face.

I stopped doing it for the same reason