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[ritinnitir]

Hi guys!... so recently iv been having these dreams about this girl. We were really good friends and we were super close by mid 2024-beginning of 2025. then by april things just slowly died and we apart stopped talking to each other as much. Then by august she moved to a different state for university. I fell in love with her. then recently (well not recently like about 2-3 months ago) i found out she has a boyfriend and honestly i wish her best i don't really have any remorse or regrets with her. but for like 6 days in a row now. iv continously been having dreams about her or something related to her. iv tried ignoring it but its really hard to get over her if she keeps coming in my dreams esp cuz shes my first love and all. how do i not dream about her. i really want to forget about her

is there anything i can do?

 

[Sedim Haba]

Welcome to the forum! Please make a intro post!

Yes, she is a soul mate, No, you don't have control of how these things work out, so sorry. My soul identifies with the pain.

 

[Angelkesfarl]

May peace settle upon your heart, my friend. I have provided this incantation in a separate thread; it is potent for inducing forgetfulness, even of love, and for severing the chains of attachment. I hope it proves beneficial to you.

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[Vitorino]

Well, you seem to be stuck with her somehow (or/and stuck with the idea you have about her), also because of the way you drifted apart, without resolution. It's time to look within yourself for what's still attached to her and let it go. Maybe some kind of ritual of cutting ties, returning what belongs to the other person and keeping what is yours.
By the way, an idea just occurred to me. Do you still have anything physical that belongs to her?
Be at peace and understand: that time has passed, everything is fine.