Most personal spellwork — functions through intention, attention, belief reinforcement, and behavior patterns. Over time, those patterns either fade or get reinforced. So the good news is: nothing is spiritually irreversible in the dramatic way people sometimes fear.
If something did go wrong it can be addressed:
- -Revoke the intention
- -Do a simple closing ritual
- Real world repairs as needed
- Release fear - stop feeding the spell.
A simple and safe way to address it is to consciously revoke it. You can literally say (out loud or in writing):
“I withdraw and cancel any intention or influence from past workings that no longer serve me or others. Only what is healthy, mutual, and beneficial remains.”
or something similar.
Then close it symbolically — light a candle, read your statement, and extinguish it while saying something like, “This is complete.”
The act of closure matters.
If other people were involved and you feel regret, the most powerful “undoing” is often real-world repair: honest communication, changed behavior, or making amends if appropriate. That has more impact than any counter-spell.
Also, be careful not to let fear keep the old working alive. Anxiety can reinforce the idea that something is still active. Once you revoke it and let it go, stop feeding it with worry.
You’re not permanently bound to something you did long ago. You can close it, learn from it, and move forward.