Hm I think many here missed the point. There is a reason that pornography was actually used as a weapon of war to weaken the population, guess this case was in gaza before, but i would say indirectly it's used anywhere in the world.
I mean think about tit, what better way to control the population than with keeping the young men in a state of nebulous non-care.
Procreation is the ultimate motivation to get ones shit together - with that being replaced by instant gratification there is no reason not to hang around smoking pot and mess around.
It's not that important if you ever fap or whatever - it's more about the connection it has to pornography and the hijacking of motivation. We all know by now that dopamine feedback loops are dangerous for motivation. Porn is the ultimate dopamine trap. At least visualize the scenario yourself XD I guess intention is a good one to get a grip on the mostly out of hand rhythm of release - just do it with intention to manifest.
Manifest a good time with your partner, manifest offspring or manifest a magickal intention.
For me it was very evident that whenever I abstain I reach major stepping stones in my life or suddenly manifest all things I wanted for years without even caring about them anymore.
It's really about detaching from desire - if I genuinely funnel the energy that is literally the power of creation into any other fields (and the difficulty of doing so for a longer time is just a major part of addiction) I begin to care for other things - care principle u know, Genesis or the G in masonry.
What I really want to realize for myself is the skill of orgasm without ejaculation that Mantak Chia teaches among others, there even is an app called 'mindgasm' for your phone that works on this.
I mean why would I weaken myself if I can have more intense orgasms without releasing physically? It even makes one more energetic and you are no worse partner by not ejaculating, in the contrary!
And I wouldn't care about the prostate warning personally, red light therapy takes care of that easily - if one applies intense light to that region or full body regularly.
I do not have to punish myself for releasing time to time, especially with a partner, it just happens. But I also do not have to punish myself with being a shadow of myself, lowering myself to the same levels as some nano-minded retards that can't even leave goats alone and can't see the divine feminine in any way or even see women as human.
Maybe I'm just a little enraged by not releasing enough lmao, maybe it's just being aware of the disastrous effects it has on societies and all of us in this day and age. Anyways.
You will always attract what you work towards, meaning increasing the odds of being able to have it, while not clinging to results, meaning lusting after it, so for me it's basically if I do not lust after women they throw themselves on me after a few weeks.
If you constantly release the essence you basically radiate 'impotence' - you signal you're not fertile.
Also a major problem in relationships or 'being on the wavelength' is that when you put your mind and body in constant build up, release - obsess, forget - you'll embody exactly that -instability. There is nothing more unattractive than instability to women.
Also a little advice regarding the edging and not releasing- it can be dangerous or unhealthy, as building pressure up that is not released can generate unbalance in the organs. More of a TCM view, could not prove that, but can relate to the feeling after edging and feeling like a 100k psi baloon.
I think it's essential to do all kinds of funneling this energy in being productive and fit - and learning the qi gong/tantric aspects to keep the body healthy. If one does not turn ones life around into direction of replacement activities it won't work. And even then it's hard like the morning erections that come with it. In the beginning just let the body take care of releasing overflow though wet dreams -those can be taken care of through abstaining from artificial sexual stimuli, doing a few rituals to keep off succubi like spirits away can also help.
At the same time there are many that advocate for releasing at least once a week. And that's okay - this shit anyways is just for the few that really want to go to these icy cave hermit monk mode Übermensch levels.
It's all about how you treat yourself - you could very well say 'I'm extremely healthy with releasing every day' and that's fine -
but I would just do such a thing in a relationship as there is at least some energy exchange. There are always times for certain routines -if it it living your dream falling in love, awesome- but wouldn't it be even nicer to potentiate this to levels unimaginable, with the same partner, tantric ecstasy for some hours without being drained afterwards?
I was very fit and all that with my nymphomaniac ex, but I would have been invincible if I managed to practice semen retention or tantra with her.
She was not the one to do that with, I'll wish you all to find someone to practice true tantric bliss.
So yeah, there is a reason many yogis and masters, scientists and artists or conquerors abstained.
But I also tend to be obsessive, extreme, unforgiving, saturnian and a little hard to myself, so take my words with a drop of Vaseline.
I sound really cocky in this post, but where if not in a post about this i thought.
Btw this post inspired me to post a collection of
Mantak Chia books in the Library.
The book 'the multiorgasmic man' teaches orgasm without ejaculation.
